- Vice Ganda said it’s best for parents to allow their kids to make mistakes
- He said by pampering kids too much, it stops them from learning and will have a hard time in the real world
- The comedian said parents should teach their kids independence
Vice Ganda told parents that too much pampering, makes kids’ dull.
According to the comedian, it’s important for parents to teach their kids on how to become independent and have a mind of their own. On “It’s Showtime,” Vice had an emotional talk with Ryan Bang, whom he treats like his own son.
Vice warned Ryan that someday, he will have to leave him and that he must learn to stand on his own.
“Huwag kang umasa na nandito ako forever. Darating ang oras na iiwanan kita, Ryan. At dapat kaya mo ‘yon. At dapat, ngayon pa lang, handa ka doon,” Vice said to Ryan.
The comedian went on to advice parents to allow their children to make mistakes and support them in correcting those mistakes. He said it’s best for kids to make their decisions on their own.
“Hayaan ninyo silang magkamali, hayaan n’yo silang mag-decide. Tapos pag nagkamali, tsaka ni\’yo sila suportahang magkabangon. Pero hayaan n’yo rin silang madiskubre kung paano sila babangon, kung paano nila matatama ang kanilang mga pagkakamali,” Vice said.
Vice added that too much pampering will make kids dull in making decisions. “Hindi puwedeng sinusubuan natin nang sinusubuan. Kapag bini-baby nang bini-baby, nabobobo ‘yung mga bata,” Vice said.
He went on to say that if we continue to “baby” our kids, they will have a hard time making it out in the real world.
“Nahihirapan sila paglabas ng bahay. Hindi na nila alam kung paano sila haharap sa hamon ng mundo, kung hindi kayo katabi,” Vice said.
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